- Now-a-days Pakistani women have come out of their homes for education and work.
- At work places and everywhere both the genders can interact with each other freely.
- The easy contact of both the genders via social media.
This first time interaction of men and women both in Pakistan has overshadowed the family values. Rather than taking social media as a constructive and productive tool, people prefer to use the social forums as free dating sites. If you are limited to your specified friends, it makes sense, but unfortunately, there are sitting people of all ages behind the computer who have plenty of time or all the time for chatting.
Only two decades ago, people used to respect ladies and at least too young, elder and married ladies were not bothered, but now they don’t care. I don’t know where have gone the people who knew how to respect different social relationships. But, now they want to take ‘chances’ with everyone regardless of age and marital status. It’s very strange, because there are always rules to play games. Also, it is the height of immorality and weak character that you don’t have any personal or social values out of your intoxication for lust.
Free interaction of both the genders doesn’t mean that you have lost all the values and all the rules. If a lady is out there for work, education or some other reason, or available online doesn’t indicate she is free for “friendships”.
Similarly, those ladies who accept friend requests don’t mean they are looking for friends. Most probably they are doing online businesses and want more and more people to get to know about their products, services or skills they offer. So, it is very bothering to send them aimless messages like,
” Honey, your pics are very nice.”
“How was your day dear?”
‘When are you free for a chat?”
“I am looking for a friend. I would be glad to have you my friend. etc.”
The best way is, ask for chat to only friends you already know in your real life, rather than sending friend requests just because you found someone good looking. ‘Good looking’ element doesn’t symbolise that the person is keen in making friends with strangers, or doesn’t have any big purposes of life. Secondly, when you are accepted as a friend by an unknown person, be clear he/she might be into a business, run a blog or own a company. Then, get the idea that he/she means business, and urges to advertize his/her business around the globe. So, if you are interested in the business and you have some genuine queries, do send them professional messages in professional tones.
On the same note, if someone doesn’t respond to your ‘ only friendly’ messages, why to bother messaging him/her again and again? Similarly, if someone replies, “Sorry, I am too busy to chat,” you should take it as a polite No to your “Friendship” offers.
If these fb professionals are successful or struggling to be successful, they are already juggling with various activities and dealing with time management challenges. If they start spending time on aimless interactions and replying “just friendly” chats, how will they attend to their meaningful business ventures. In fact, they have no more time for that.
However, they are always available for meaningful chat, e.g. you may inquire about their business, generate a discussion via commenting on their blogs, order for the products they offer or engage them in delivering services for you.